Digital invitation with wedding menu and allergies

Ninety guests, three versions of the menu, and one question at eleven at night: does the main course have nuts in it? The answer sits somewhere under forty messages, two voice notes and a photo of somebody's dog. Nobody wants to ask again in front of ninety people, so nobody asks. That's the gap a digital invitation fills: the wedding menu and allergies written in one place, on the same page as the date. You can pick a design from the catalogue today, fill in the menu and send the link tonight.

The fix isn't a longer WhatsApp message. Digital invitations are pages you control: menu, allergy note and confirmations in one place, editable after sending, same link for everyone.

Why the wedding menu and allergies never survive a group chat

A group chat is fine for jokes and for who's driving on the day. It's a bad place for anything that has to stay true for six weeks. With ninety guests you end up with the menu in two or three versions and no certainty about which one the caterer has. And someone with a nut allergy would rather not announce it in a thread of ninety people; they want a clear line and one specific place to write to. Change the children's menu two days before and you're messaging households one by one: ninety messages, ninety replies, no ordered list at the end.

• The menu sits in one scene, and that version matches the one the caterer has.
• The allergy note names who to write to and the date to do it by.
• You've opened the link on a real phone, not just the laptop at home.
• Every RSVP question is one you'll actually read and use.

A digital invitation keeps the menu on the same page as the date

The invitation is a small website for your day, built in scenes: the dinner, the promises, the last dance. The menu goes in the dinner scene, next to the time and the address, so the person wondering about the second course reads it there instead of scrolling. Change a dish, a time or the map and the link stays the same. Nothing to resend, no envelopes to reprint. Guests open it in any browser, on any phone, no app to install, and a QR code does the same job as the link.

Then the allergy line. One visible sentence in the dinner scene: who to write to and by when. Name the real options — a children's menu, a gluten-free plate — because whatever isn't written gets asked five times. And don't promise more than the page can do: the invitation doesn't close the allergy list with the caterer. You do that, with the confirmations in front of you. They arrive inside the invitation as an ordered list, and the questions on the RSVP form are the ones you chose.

The menu goes on the page once, the allergy note says who to write to, and the confirmations arrive as a list you can read.

How much does a digital invitation cost, and what it doesn't do

One invitation costs 29.99 EUR, paid once, no subscription. It's 100% digital: no paper, no printing, nothing posted. If someone in the family wants something to hold, the sensible split is the link for everyone plus a handful of printed copies for the people who'll keep them. Guests need a phone, a tablet or a laptop with a connection — that's the whole requirement. If your date is set, the menu and the allergy note can be written today: try it free, edit in the browser, publish when the menu is final, and read the confirmations on the same page.