Digital Invitation for a Mums' Bachelorette Party

Your bachelorette party for mums is three weeks away. You send the date to the group chat and it turns into a debate: one can only do Friday, two can't get a babysitter that night, someone assumed the children were coming and someone else assumed they weren't. By Sunday there are four versions of the plan and nobody has actually said yes. A group chat isn't built for this. A digital invitation is.

One link with the date, the times and what kind of weekend it is. You can build it today from the collection, edit the cover in preview before you pay, and send it while everyone is still paying attention. Guests open it in their browser and confirm from their phone, with nothing to install.

The digital invitation sets the plan before the group chat does

The link holds one version of the truth. Friday's dinner is at 9:30pm, Saturday's lunch is at 2pm, and if one of those moves, the same link shows the new time. Nobody scrolls back through messages to work out who said what, because the details aren't buried in the chat.

• One date, one time, one place, so there's nothing to reconcile later.
• Say what kind of do it is: Friday dinner without the kids, Saturday lunch with them, or both in the same weekend.
• Each mum opens the link in her browser and confirms from her phone. No app to install.
• Replies arrive inside the invitation in one ordered list, so you're not counting messages one by one.

Bachelorette plans that fit around the kids

The trick is to put two options on the invitation and let each guest pick. Friday at 9:30pm, tapas, for the ones who can leave the little ones. Saturday at 2pm, a long lunch at someone's house: the adult table, and a smaller one next to it with a paper cloth and crayons. Two times, two RSVP answers, one link. One payment of 29.99 EUR per invitation, no subscription.

There's also the plan that works with a pushchair or without one: same place, same time, 6pm. A pottery workshop, a spa, or a walk that ends in ice cream. If the children come, they come, and the plan doesn't change.

The invitation isn't the party. It's the part that means everyone turns up knowing when, where and who's bringing the kids.

What guests read first: the label, the time and whether kids come

The first screen does the work. A short label like 'Marta's send-off' reads better than a full sentence, and the character counter stops it getting cut off on a phone. Below it, a horizontal cover photo of the table with the small chairs beside it: it frames itself, and you can swap it later. Then the scenes run in order and tell the weekend — 'Long dinner' for Friday, 'Courtyard memory' for Saturday's lunch, 'Last dance' for the end.

If you already know the date, the times and who's bringing the children, the only thing left is to say it properly. Build your bachelorette digital invitation in Send The Joy, try the cover free, and publish the link so the confirmations start coming in.