Christening Invitations with Interfaith Godparents

Your aunt asks who the godparents are. You say two names. She asks if they're Catholic. You pause. One is Jewish, the other Muslim. You're writing christening invitations with interfaith godparents and you haven't sent anything yet.

That pause is the problem. The invitation has to name who they are and what they'll do, without asking them to pretend.

How to word christening invitations with interfaith godparents

Write the role, not the religion. On the invitation, say: 'Standing with us as godparents: [Name] and [Name].' Drop 'baptismal godparents' if they won't say the Catholic vows. If one is Jewish or Muslim, don't ask them to respond 'I do renounce' or lead a prayer. Their presence is the gesture. Send a private message before you send anything: 'Your role is to be there, not to perform a rite that isn't yours.' That way no one gets the surprise in front of the other guests. Keep 'Catholic baptism' if the ceremony is Catholic. Changing it to 'spiritual celebration' confuses guests who need a parish and a time. Add one line that opens the circle: 'Each of you joins us from your own faith and your own affection.' Don't list the godparents' religions on the invitation. Name the people, not their labels.

• Name the godparents by name and relationship, not by their religion.
• Write 'Catholic baptism' if it is one; don't hide it to avoid awkwardness.
• Say who takes part in the rite and who just stands with you.
• Include time, place and a map for both ceremony and lunch.

Seats, gestures and a toast that doesn't borrow a ritual

Reserve a visible seat for the godparents but outside the presbytery if they won't take part in the rite: first bench, right side, for example. Agree beforehand if they stand, carry the candle, or just accompany you. If they don't participate, tell them: 'No need to come up; we'll call you for the photo.' If you want a detail from another tradition, talk to the priest first; don't improvise a Hanukkah candle or a prayer rug at the altar.

Put 'Ceremony at 12:00 at [parish]' and 'Lunch at 14:30 at [place]' on the invitation, with a map, so no one has to ask on WhatsApp. Seat the godparents where they can talk to whoever they like, not at a head table that forces a religious toast. Ask a godparent for a few words without a prayer: 'Tell us an anecdote and we'll toast.' It closes better than a forced Our Father.

Write the role, not the rite: name who stands with you and let the ceremony speak for itself.

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